How To Chat Up Women On Facebook Part I

Facebook almost everyone has it but how can you use social networking, specifically Facebook to help you secure dates with cute girls? If you have been living on another planet for the last five years and have no idea what I’m talking about. Mark Zuckerberg, founded Facebook while studying psychology at Harvard University.

A very gifted computer programmer, Mark Zuckerberg had already developed a number of social-networking websites for fellow students, including Coursematch, which allowed users to view people taking their degree, and Facemash, where you could rate peoples attractiveness (which got him into a lot of trouble if the movie The Social Network is to be believed).

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In February 2004 Zuckerberg launched the Facebook, as it was originally known; the name taken from the sheets of paper distributed to freshmen, profiling students and staff. Within 24 hours, 1,200 Harvard students had signed up, and after one month, over half of the undergraduate population had a profile. The company recently announced that the number of registered users had surpassed 1.9 billion. That means even your mother probably has her own Facebook account.

Today we are going to be looking at meeting and chatting up women on Facebook, I get a lot of guys ask me for advice about how they can improve their chances of securing a date with a woman just by starting off talking to her on Facebook. Now first of all, many of the principles of online dating success can also be applied when talking to women on Facebook.

Now there are literally hundreds of tips that I can give you but today I am going to give you just three which I believe will get you started, first of all we need to look at the photograph you have chosen for your profile page or main photograph. Women like men the first thing that they look at is the photograph that accompanies the message, if the photograph is no good, it’s very likely that the message is going to either be ignored or deleted.

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So what not to do. First of all don’t upload a photograph that’s been taken in front of your computer. Now apart from that really attractive screen glare which is going to be on your face, it also conveys a message to the girl that you are lonely and you spend way too much time on the computer surfing the net, looking for hot girls to send messages to. You might not be that guy, you might just be really lazy and decided that it would be adequate to have a photograph of you with a screen glare on your face, it’s not adequate, it conveys that you’re lonely even if you’re not so please ditch that one. This Huffington Post article has some more great tips.

Secondly don’t put up a picture of your torso. Not for a profile picture anyhow. Now you might have an amazing body, something that you are very proud of and you can put those pictures up in your albums, but don’t put that up as a profile picture because women automatically assume that the picture is a fake. Especially if you have a nice body.

Then the girl really assumes that it is a fake and especially those really black and white ones that have been done professionally in a studio. Every time I get a message from a guy with photograph like that, I presume he’s not that guy. Automatically I presume this and even if the girl does believe you and it is you, then what she’s going to be thinking is that you’re a show off.

Much more on this topic in Part II of this series.